Hello to all of you. I know most/all of you are hurting and feeling at your wits end. My story does not necessarily have then ending you all are hoping for. I know that, but I'm here to say, that if you work at it, it gets better.
I'm 45 days from my D being final. I've spent the last 6 months GALing, trying to change the things about me I don't like, setting goals, achieving those goals and rewarding myself for doing so, dating, working out, re-establishing old friendships etc. etc. etc. You know what? It works!
MWD teaches to make time your friend. Sometimes it won't seem like it. I've waited by the phone/computer for longer than I care to admit. I still do sometimes. But when the call doesn't come, use the time for yourself.
Good luck to all, and keep your heads up. It gets better!
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011
