Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
doing well, thanks for asking. We are planning a trip/cruise for our 30th anniversary so I probably should change my screen name.

But then again, it shows how long this stuff can last too.


That's great -- I could use a cruise right now too, or something of that ilk. I'm glad y'all have made it this far; I hope to have a similar milestone too. It's so strange that earlier in life/marriage, I saw (from examples around me -- parents, friends, family) celebrating major wedding anniversaries as a given. But now it's something I have to work so much harder than anticipated to achieve, if at all.

UPDATE 6:05pm
My wife saw the (outside) of my new house for the first time yesterday. She was dressed nice and I made it a point to compliment her on that. She flatly responded, "Oh...thanks." But then it opened her up to talking about her long day at the clinic and told me about a patient she had. Then I asked if our son and I could take her out for Mother's Day for a meal. She had totally forgotten about it, and said she needed to get a card for her mom. My wife stood there for a moment thinking about her schedule, so I added, "Sleep on it and let me know what you'd like to do. No pressure, we can either do it on Saturday or Sunday, or not. It's up to you." She said, "Ok, I will."

smile


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