Take The Long Way Home...

[ninelives]

FOBD

I think that you wait for now. Unless things will be affected by waiting, ie) the settlement will change , or she may change her mind about money in the settlement, what does it matter if she waits or not?

Maybe she is conflicted and NOt sure what she is doing. Maybe she has reflected on everything that has happened and doesnt know if she is doing the right thing.

I know you are hurt and want to make her aware of the consequences , and althought she doesn't deserve it, your marriage does.

Im not saying that you should have a lot of hope that she will come back to the marriage , but always take the high road. It will serve you better in the end.

Just my 2 cents.

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