Had a pretty good day yesterday, despite or maybe because of the ranting. It's hard to concentrate with all of this hanging over me and I've got to get a lot of things ready for next week. Started filling out the divorce paperwork. This whole thing is going to cost me a lot, especially the hit I'm going to take on the house. I don't mind splitting the equity with him if there were any. I have a choice between paying the mortgage and not eating until the market recovers or walking away with no equity. H likes to tell me that he's put this five years of sweat equity into the house for me. And I usually tell him to stop doing me favors and work on his marriage. It's not his fault the market slumped, but he did more than his share to cause the marriage to fail. Pretty soon, I'm going to have to contact him to get the mortgage payment info and copies of our last tax return. He was so combative this weekend that I anticipate he will not be cooperating.
