Well, she broke radio silence today but just to say "I don't know when we should start talking again. I've just been giving us both some time. I'm not even precisely sure what we should be talking about, honestly." Friendly, neutral, not acrimonious, hoping I'm doing okay and having a good time. But of course absolutely no flex. I've no idea how, or even if, to respond. So long as her frame is "returning means losing", I can't win.
What a mess. Had a roughish day yesterday but actually doing pretty well this morning. Angry, though.
