Gosh.. Tipper, I am sorry to hear that I am not sure what to say, or what I would do if I were in your shoes.. in fact no, I have thought about it.. that if H ever did that again/left again in such a brutal fashion, that I WOULDNT Db next time, I would in fact, accept it and move on. I couldnt go through this twice and I know in my heart of hearts I gave it my best shot.
Hi girls !! Thanks for checking on me I am doing really well.. I was very tired and basically, preggy brained and in a bit of a mental fog there for a while, but I feel like my old self again now. Just got the heeby jeebies about the birth now !!
H has been amazing, totally amazing.. he is in full on nesting mode (his words!) and has been cleaning, tidying, mending things, doing all the laundry, cooking nice meals.. I have been helping and I do still do alot of cooking, but he has been so great. We have spent the last few days getting the house and baby room ready, but still stuff to do !
I am 35 weeks tomorrow and everything still normal and textbook as midwife put it.. my blood pressure is 110 over 60 which I thikn is pretty darn good for being pregnant !
And... the HOMEBIRTH IS BOOKED !!!! Eek again!
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I am not sure what to say, or what I would do if I were in your shoes.. in fact no, I have thought about it.. that if H ever did that again/left again in such a brutal fashion, that I WOULDNT Db next time, I would in fact, accept it and move on. I couldnt go through this twice and I know in my heart of hearts I gave it my best shot. 
I am doing really well.. I was very tired and basically, preggy brained and in a bit of a mental fog there for a while, but I feel like my old self again now. Just got the heeby jeebies about the birth now !! 
