ali, I dont know if you remember me, but I was on the boards about 2-3 years ago. I watched your situation back then. I was just hoping to maybe get some advice from you as my H has just left me again after 3 years of piecing.I have a thread in the MLC forum and in the piecing forum. Thanks, TIPPER
Gosh.. Tipper, I am sorry to hear that I am not sure what to say, or what I would do if I were in your shoes.. in fact no, I have thought about it.. that if H ever did that again/left again in such a brutal fashion, that I WOULDNT Db next time, I would in fact, accept it and move on. I couldnt go through this twice and I know in my heart of hearts I gave it my best shot.
Hi girls !! Thanks for checking on me I am doing really well.. I was very tired and basically, preggy brained and in a bit of a mental fog there for a while, but I feel like my old self again now. Just got the heeby jeebies about the birth now !!
H has been amazing, totally amazing.. he is in full on nesting mode (his words!) and has been cleaning, tidying, mending things, doing all the laundry, cooking nice meals.. I have been helping and I do still do alot of cooking, but he has been so great. We have spent the last few days getting the house and baby room ready, but still stuff to do !
I am 35 weeks tomorrow and everything still normal and textbook as midwife put it.. my blood pressure is 110 over 60 which I thikn is pretty darn good for being pregnant !
And... the HOMEBIRTH IS BOOKED !!!! Eek again!
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Ali, I was just talking about this with my kids the other day. I remember the delivery and that yes, it did hurt but that fades fairly quickly(otherwise I would have been crazy to have 3 more!! lol). With my first, I was ready to do it again, same day even.
You will be fine. I am so glad that your H is fully on board. He really is a lucky guy to have you and yes, you to have him. I am getting so excited for you both.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I am not sure what to say, or what I would do if I were in your shoes.. in fact no, I have thought about it.. that if H ever did that again/left again in such a brutal fashion, that I WOULDNT Db next time, I would in fact, accept it and move on. I couldnt go through this twice and I know in my heart of hearts I gave it my best shot. 
I am doing really well.. I was very tired and basically, preggy brained and in a bit of a mental fog there for a while, but I feel like my old self again now. Just got the heeby jeebies about the birth now !! 