Yes it does seem counter intuitive and maybe that's the reason that it works for so many people. My biggest problem is that when I screw up, I feel like I've just lost everything and I think "what's the point". I'm trying to work on that, but it's really hard!!
I've been following CountrySong for awhile. It's amazing how alike our situations are. I just hope that we can all find our rainbow at the end of the tunnel.
I'm going to attempt to go to bed now and hopefully I'll be in a better frame of mind tomorrow. Thanks for the ear Moose! I'll keep an eye on your sitch and give you any advice that I can!
Me: 31 H: 30 Kids: D9 Together almost 12 years Married almost 5 years EA began: 8/10 Separated: 3/11