Yes it does seem counter intuitive and maybe that's the reason that it works for so many people. My biggest problem is that when I screw up, I feel like I've just lost everything and I think "what's the point". I'm trying to work on that, but it's really hard!!

I've been following CountrySong for awhile. It's amazing how alike our situations are. I just hope that we can all find our rainbow at the end of the tunnel.

I'm going to attempt to go to bed now and hopefully I'll be in a better frame of mind tomorrow. Thanks for the ear Moose! I'll keep an eye on your sitch and give you any advice that I can!


Me: 31
H: 30
Kids: D9
Together almost 12 years
Married almost 5 years
EA began: 8/10
Separated: 3/11