Am I doing everything wrong?

[Confused423]

Moose,

I just read the rest of your thread. Snooping is a really BIG problem for me. Sometimes, I just need to know, but you know what? Every single time that I check the phone statement I feel like crap. Every single time I have gone through his phone, I've felt like crap! It drives me crazy not to know, but it hurts me to know. One of the reasons that tonight happened was because I check the phone records and realized that he texted her today before he texted me and it hurt my feelings. I went with what I felt instead of following DB tactics and it blew up in my face.

We talked for a few minutes by text tonight (as I said earlier) and I told him again to not stay mad at me for long. He said "I won't...never really do now do I". Who knows!! I think it's going to be best if I stay out of his "way" this week, but that's how I feel...is it the right thing???