Kappy,

Sorry your here with us, but keep coming back. This forum will help a lot in giving you direction, peace, and hope.

I am no expert, but i was concerned that maybe you are letting your H have his cake and eat it too. He is confused, but you moved out of the bedroom to appease him. He texts ya to his room, you go have sex with him. These types of reactions to him, are possibly gonna make you feel more confused and used and abused, especially if he has had EA's and PA's with other women. MY advice, Keep yourself safe, especially in the bedroom if he is sleeping around. I do understand that at the time - you thought things were getting a bit better, just keep your eyes wide open.

Often when they threaten to leave and or say they feel trapped, they very well may do so. Start preparing just in case. Look out for your well being. There are a lot of classic signs and traits your H shares with MLC'ers, So read up on it in Michelles book Divorce Remedy or here on the website if you have not already done so. Then you will be able to decide if he fits the shoe.
Take Care,
TIPPER