I know! I was so glad to get off full moderation too. Makes this so much easier when you don't have to wait 2 days to get your posts up.
My OM had been through a really messy divorce apparently, which is why W confided in him in the first place. I've tried to get her to see that he manipulated her because he knew EXACTLY what she wanted to hear knowing the situation, but I'm not sure if she believes that or even wants to.
Saw a great quote the other day on one of the other threads, I believe the original post was by 25. I'm paraphrasing, but I think it was "We can't convince our WAS of the consequences of their actions...Life will do that for them."
Can only work on ourselves Confused, and just hope that they'll wake up.
BITS M: 35 W: 27 T 7.5 years M 5 years No kids My EA: 3/08 Her EA: 1/11, discovered 3/11 (ongoing?) ILYBINILY, D mentioned 3/8/11 W at parents house: 4/16/11