Take The Long Way Home...

[FellOnBlackDays]

Hey BITS,
Well, not much to report again. I made the call this past Wednesday night as I told you all I was going to do. We had texted earlier in the day. I specifically told her I would be calling around 10pm to discuss this D that she wants so f*cking badly. So, what does she do. She goes out!!! I call her, she answers with a somewhat crappy attitude. I try to make small talk and she informs me she can't talk. I tell her that the petition is ready to be picked up at my A's office. She acknowledges the information and then proceeds to try to immediately get off the phone. I let my aggravation slip a bit. At one point, I just laughed sarcastically into the phone. She asked me "what was that?" I replied, "absolutely nothing, (name). You are something else." She sat there quite for a minute and then said, "Well, can we talk later?" I replied, "Yes, when? Tonight? Tomorrow? I would like to plan accordingly as to not interrupt your busy schedule." She sensed at that point I was not happy. She replied, "I don't know, just later." I replied, "Whatever you want, you know where I will be" and I hung up the phone.

Team, my patience is wearing thin. She wanted this f*cking D and now when I call to talk about the thing, she is TOO busy. Really? Your night out with friends is more important than details regarding our D after 10 years of marriage. You really are a piece of work, my love.

So, I call the A today to find out if she had been by to pick up the papers. They inform me not only has she not shown up, she hasn't even called to set up an appt or time to get the damned papers!!! Are you kidding me???

Folks, I am just venting. No 2x4's needed here. I am just getting tired of the games. You want out, my love. Here! Here is your walking papers! Oh, wait, I am sorry, now you are too busy to get this done or to even give me enough time to give you the address of the A's office? I do believe I am dealing with a complete "nut job" at this point. Sorry, for the tone. I am not really mad and I do still care. But, this is ridiculous. I think she really needs to do some growing up. This is not a game. It is our lives she is screwing around with and I am not sure I appreciate her behavior.

Tomorrow it will be a week since I talked to her. I guess she has decided that she will do this on her own sweet time. If she doesn't show up to get the papers by the end of the week, I am going to have her served. I guess she doesn't realize that I now mean business and I will no longer be jerked around. You want a divorce? Well, hear it is. You opened this "Pandora's Box," it is not my concern that you cannot control what is coming out of it.

Once again, I am not pissed. I am just tired of the foolishness. I am giving what she wants and now she is going to play around with it like a six-year-old who doesn't want to eat her vegetables while sitting at the dinner table. Not acceptable...

Go ahead, fire away. I come here to vent so I don't vent to her. So, let me have it. I know I have it coming...

FOBD