Nah, wouldn't want the two of them to be happy! Vindictive, I know, but letting go of anger at my W is one thing, he gets to keep every last bit of the anger I feel towards him.
He knew she was married, knew she was having trouble, and knew that my father was suffering from a life-threatening injury...and he took advantage of her at a moment where she was really depressed. I know she played a part in it too, and so did I, but he used all that to his own ends and has now poisoned my marriage, hopefully not to the point where I can't save it. He doesn't get to be forgiven...not yet.
Sorry to hijack your thread, but man that felt good!
BITS M: 35 W: 27 T 7.5 years M 5 years No kids My EA: 3/08 Her EA: 1/11, discovered 3/11 (ongoing?) ILYBINILY, D mentioned 3/8/11 W at parents house: 4/16/11
