Seriously, though, any ideas on how best to DB in a situation like this? I'm heavily into getting a life, being active socially, and in the absence of direct communications with W I'm blogging about it a bit (not an "IN YER FACE!" sort of thing, but keeping a public journal of what I'm up to--I know she reads it and will be following me; I'm just hoping it's with the right attitude and not "oh, well he seems to be doing fine, guess I'm justified").
But I'm totally unclear what I should say or how to act when she contacts me again. It's very confusing.
