Am I doing everything wrong?

[Confused423]

You know...I've never heard about detaching in just that way. It really makes sense to me that way! WOW! Talk about being enlightened!!!

I try really hard to make sure that he makes contact with me first and I try to be light and happy, but sometimes that is really hard. Especially since all of our light and happy seems to somehow revolve around sex. It's hard to remove that aspect and still keep everything happy go lucky

I'm trying really hard to GAL too, but it's really hard when he is here everyday and my D has panic attacks if I leave her for too long!!!

What's a girl to do. I'm in that proverbial rock and hard place I guess...lol!