Oh man, Confused I am at the exact same spot right now. W told me tonight that she really wants to make a choice to try for us again, but she just doesn't know how or if that's what will make her happy. I know OM has something to do with that (or at least that's what I assume).
This is the hardest part, but all the vets are telling me that I need to detach even more now than I did before. My DB coach keeps saying that detaching is from the R, not the person. So I'm trying to let my W make contact first, and to ALWAYS keep things light and happy, even when I feel like my heart is getting torn from my chest.
And if your OW could drag the OM in my sitch down with her, I wouldn't complain either
BITS M: 35 W: 27 T 7.5 years M 5 years No kids My EA: 3/08 Her EA: 1/11, discovered 3/11 (ongoing?) ILYBINILY, D mentioned 3/8/11 W at parents house: 4/16/11
