They cannot see why they are being treated as outsiders by their children because they cannot visualize and acknowledge the pain they have caused to their children and their families as a whole.
This is so true. Still hard to believe stbxw cant see this. S19 has nothing to do with W. Wont even speak to her anymore. She gets so angry and asks me why is he being so childish. Truth is, at 19 he is more mature than his 45 yr old mom. To a WAS its only their feelings that matter.
ME:47 WAW:45 SON:19 SON:12 M:21 yrs T: 22 yrs BOMB: 3/26/10 EA/PA apr-may 2010 Current: no OM (I think) moved out sept 2010 D filed D w/b final 4/6/2011