Went over around 4:30pm and we left around 5 to head over to the concert. On the way we stopped at a really nice Brewery & Grill and had a really nice steak dinner. She has just started Atkins again and she loves steak so it just fit the bill. She later thanked me for not tempting her to start Atkins later.
We then went on over to the concert - we got there before they let everyone in but we were waiting in an area just inside the door and out of the cold. We were standing up and leaning against the wall when she got a little faint. We were facing each other and she leaned against me and laid her head on my shoulder as we did a light hug. While she was leaning against me I was gently stroking the back of her head and hair. After a few minutes she leaned back and said that that really felt good.
We finally got in and really enjoyed the concert. Some of her songs were very sensual and the notes just effortlessly flowed out of her. We savored every song while we held hands and snuggled in our seats. After the concert we went back to her home and she said I was welcome to stay the night. All through the evening, we had had lots of really good conversation, lots of hugs and some really nice kisses. In addition when my back started hurting during the concert she gave me a really good back rub and the feelings between us was almost electric. I readily accepted and we got ready for bed.
I crawled in on her side of the bed while she finished getting ready for bed and warmed up her side of the bed and when she crawled in beside me we gave each other a big hug and a good night kiss that quickly lead to more and more kissing.
I DID NOT NEED THE MIRACLE BLUE PILLS. Every thing worked just fine. We finally spooned up really nice and dropped off to sleep. Several times throughout the night we spooned and snuggled and such.
Puppy woke us up before the alarm and needed to go out - C took out puppy while I made coffee then we sat on the couch and talked some during our first cup. She mentioned that she had a headache and after a few minutes she went back to bed. I let her sleep for about 30 more minutes but it was getting time to start moving if she was going to get to work. I went to the kitchen and fixed her a fried egg and some of the left over steak from last night and took it to the bedroom. She was pleasantly surprised to wake up to breakfast in bed. While she ate I gently rubbed her feet and legs. We then took our shower together. I helped her brush and dry her hair and we got dressed for work.
Several times throughout our date she said “I could get use to this”, and as I was leaving I got a really good kiss and hug and she thanked me for a great evening, morning coffee and breakfast in bed.
Only problem with the evening was that she still will not say ILY although it seemed like she was very close on several occasions. I believe it is just a matter of time though. I will let her get there on her own schedule and will not push, I will just enjoy that part of the ride.
I noticed you are an attorney (and a fellow DBer, who has already got divorced etc), so I wondered if you wouldn't mind popping over to my thread and reading my latest query - you may be able to shed some light on things...
Thanks
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
Wow! What a wonderful date! She is one very lucky lady! I agree I think C is just around the corner from saying ILY! I've never seen such a good guy and a great DBer!
Standing here on the sidelines cheering you on! Go, Bob, Go!
Your posts mean a lot to those of us who arent getting such strong signals yet. Im very happy for you and wish you all the best in continuing to make everything work. I hope my posts will start to sound more like yours in the near future. Take care!
Anything worth having is worth working HARD for!
Making a New Move
just a quick little possitive I thought I would post - just got back in from court - been there all morning and C noticed my status on the IM change from "away" to "online" and she said Hi. then after my reply she said I was just thinking about you.
PMA boosted up another notch or two (maybe even three)
