As a man I cannot believe in this day and age that there are men that still believe that; especially since you are working sooo many hours.
That is absolutely ridiculous. Gender roles do not have a place in contemporary society.
Do you help him with the yard? Do you help him with other traditional gender role things.
I dont want to be judgemental either, but this does not sound like a nice guy to me.
Once you get a bad back, your spouse should be very sympathetic about it.
Hope things go well for you. There will be many people that will help you with the actual Dbing.
Try and stay calm and in control.
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