OnMyWay: to who knows where?

[ninelives]

OMW, doesnt really sound like you have detached. It looks like you are doing temp checks on a regular basis. When you trully detach, you are indifferent and IF she comes back, then you make your decision.

When my W left the first time, I always knew she would come back or at least a part of me did. This time , I am not at all sure and am pretty sure she will not. AT least not in the near future.

I thinkn you have to decide what you really want and if you really want to detach or just "pretend to"

Just my two cents.

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