I think I may have just delayed it, but that's not a bad thing. There were great moments in the last 6 years, my kids are at a much better age to handle it and financially we are much better off. So..if all I did was delay, that's ok. I don't see it as wasting those years. I can still celebrate a 25 wedding anniversay - just with someone else.
The chances of busting again for me are realistically about 1%, but yes, this time I would do things totally differently after the bust.
