Our financial arrangement is that all of our money goes into one account and we make sure all of our bills get paid. Her apartment bills included. We still have life ins car ins and everything together. There has been no separation of bills.
btw, she tm me and said she decided not to take the extra job, and to let her no about meeting tomorrow.
This puts you in a tough spot.
You say she makes more $ than you and you could not afford your bills if she only pays half.
That means she is helping to support you.
If she offers to pick up a job again in the future to help pay for the bills, I suggest you thank her. She is already going above and beyond what she needs to do with respect to the finances.
You may want to think about your long-term plan and how you can become self sufficient with your finances.
