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I suggest you take a look at that.
Ring any bells for you?

His rigidity regarding housework ( women's work) is worrying IMHO.

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Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
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