They cannot see why they are being treated as outsiders by their children because they cannot visualize and acknowledge the pain they have caused to their children and their families as a whole.
I don't knoow if you have seen my sitch but my W is MLC.
She actually made the comment to me: "I don't understand why everyone is taking your side. I haven't done anything. I just decided to leave."
She can't or won't see the damage she has done.
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
