Hi All, I am hope that you can help me out. I have gotten the DB book and am almost done with it. My H has asked for a divorce. We have been together for 20 yrs. Married for 16. We had problems last July and he asked me to leave, I did that but was only gone for a few hours and asked to talk. I told him I did not want this and he let me come back.
Well 2 weeks ago he tells me his is not happy does not want to be happy with me. He said that he can not even look at me with love in his eyes. He is in love with me but does not love me any more. He does not think that he could ever feel for me again.
The problems back in July are back again he said. Yes they are but I am trying my best to fix this even now. I work 40 plus hours a week right now. Back in July it was 60 hours a week. I know that he wanted me to make sure the house was cleaned more but I feel I am not the only one that should be doing this. Now I say nothing and just do it. We have 2 kids S16 D13 I feel that they should along with him help me. I do all the cleaning,( he does do the dishes)shopping and cooking.He tells me that it is my job to do not the kids or his.
Right now he wants me to move out but we do not have the money for it. I also found out I have to have surg done the end of June. I have been trying to do as much as I can to make him happy. He tells me he never signed up to take care of me like this. I have back problems all though the surg is not for that. He says that I am crabby and just hates to be around me.
