been 2 days since I posted,wife let me massage her feet sunday morning then I think she got nervous for letting her guard down and I stopped.Today W was cold and distant not alot of baby steps there.Behavior of the kids prompted a R talk and she said she would like to sleep upstairs in the bed for a couple of hours I responded that She made a choice to move to the couch over a month ago and that I felt that she abandoned our marital bed so no I wasnt going to leave it. Im pretty much fed up with being I nice guy even my kids have been using this against me. I told wife she had become the teflon don no accountability sticks on her while my kids rail me for sitting a nd drinking a beer. W goes out all the time yet shes the golden child here WTF!!!
Im totally confused ,could use some help, one minute I see small steps and a day or two later its back to square one.
