I'm seeing an IC. During the sessions, they suggest communicating with my WAW when I feel it...to not accept my W terms of interaction. Counter to the 180, they don't view this as pursuing.
There are a lot of counselors out there and you will get confused if they do not paralleled with DB techniques. If your W does not want to interact with you, do you think it would be pursuing to do so anyway?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
