Do I go fully dark and hope she makes the choice to try again and not throw us away for a guy who's 13 years older than her and has a kid from an already broken marriage?
Do you think you can go dark? You can't even get through one day without contacting her.
It makes no difference to her that OM is 13 yrs older or that he has a daughter. That part, you can stop wondering about.
She isn't trying to "find herself", Moose, she's trying to decide which man she wants to pick. In the meantime, she plays you and she plays OM. As long as both men allow her to play, then she will continue.
You have been getting great advice, but you aren't heeding what you're reading.
Are you ready to be the man that will attract her back, or will you continue making the same mistakes?
You have allowed her all the choices. Why not decide to take back your life? You have a choice to make.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
