my h and son gave me necklace

[MrBond]

rysmom,

That's the worst thing you could have done. Remember what I said about being judgemental? You're still doing it. And on top of that, you used your son as an excuse for your hurt.

You can't keep doing that. Unfortunately you can't stop him from taking your son with the OW. You are going to have to learn to accept it for now. It doesn't mean that it won't change later.

Let's face it. He didnt' hang up on you because the OW was there. He hung up because you were acting a little psycho and scared him. You keep doing that and he will stay in his hole.

Get a new therapist right away. Have you ever thought that maybe the therapist doesn't call you back because you don't change? If you are going to go in for help, then get help for you. Keep getting stronger please.