Update....

After receiving draft decree from wife 2 weeks ago, I sent an email back to her on some issues of contention i had on the decree. contention issues were.

1: Wife wanting sole custody of daughter
2: Wife placing demand that i visit daughter 12 times before i can bring her home.
3: Since wife is staying more than 200 miles from me, i've asked her to share the cost for daughter to travel. This is because i did not place a domicle restriction on her. But she has not agreed for this too.

W's lawyer just sent the response back. Basically wife not agreeing to any of the issues. I think i've had it. Just called up the lawyer i was using for guidance and asked her to represent me. I dont think i can handle the logistics of divorce and deal with the emotions at the same time. As 25 said, lawyers can handle the nasty details while i can concentrate on being a good dad to my daughter.


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...