18 Wheels and a Dozen Roses

[OnMyWay]

I also asked that he get back to me on his thoughts about us moving, he groaned, but said he understood and did not want to put it off till after I had already decided.

There it is again - confirmed by the groan. I don't know what it is about this makes me feel like I want to groan, too.

Makes me think of what my DB Coach told me: "Ask yourself if what you are about to say will bring him closer, be neutral, or push him further away. Only say things that will bring him closer. Period."

As a dude, if you wanted to know what I felt about you moving, I'd be ok telling you, but I'm not sure I'd want to get into a discussion with you about it. That requires facing a potential conflict, which I want to avoid right now.

Glad you had a good visit today!