Your H is running the M on his terms, at your expense. I'm glad to hear about your decision to attend Al-Anon. You will hear advice, and be able to choose and modify what fits your stituation and willingness to experiment and take risks. This seems like a logical next step. You need to be empowered. He has you unbalanced.

CL


CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching