I'm with KML. The man's wife shouldn't be the only one of the four adults affected to NOT know the truth about what's going on, so she can deal with it as she sees best for her and her own children.

Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)