Originally Posted By: Tipper
I am just so afraid this time it is the real end.



It is possible...

You can't let that fear drive you to desperation though...

What exactly is it that you fear?

The end of a dream? Being alone?


Originally Posted By: Tipper
He would text me from the bars, as I would be home hurt and alone : That what matters most to him is that I Love him unconditionally.


Tipper, you can love him unconditionally and still not be able to have these sorts of destructive behaviors in your life...

Not being able to live with them, doesn't mean that there is not love...

Please don't mistake that...

Alanon will help you understand that concept...

You have to love yourself first...


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox