Sorry to hear about your pain Islander. You know I can relate and YES , Perhaps going dark is your best bet but it is difficult.

Read and reread 25's posts to 2step and try and follow those to the letter. The make sooooo much sense. It would be the best at this stage.

Stand away from theh burner, as it hurts. Try and heal Islander and make some goals for yourself.

I havent really seen you making any movement to getting a life.

It will help in the long run. If she comes back, and this is a HUGE IF, then be healty.

We cant dancing around this.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11