This is the first time that I have put anything on your thread, but I do read it. I like to read what has happened with you guys since your divorce.
I was divorced in October of 2003. I didn't want it, but your story gives me hope. So does the Lord though because he has already promised me the restoration of my marriage. Now I'm just waiting on him and working on me.
I wouldn't worry to much about the kiss thing. I think that you are just so used to having to do that, that it is just a natural thing for you. It is going to be strange to break some of those old habits when things start progressing because you are just trying to not cross over a line right now.
It will make her wonder and maybe that is what the Lord wants her to do for right now is wonder. Sometimes they have to realize just how good they had it before they really get it. I know for myself, all of this has made me appreciate my husband much more then before. Just as I'm sure that it did the same for you. Now she has to get to that point about you.
Then when you guys get back together for good, you will both have experienced what it is like to take each other for granted and will be much more careful to not do that again.