Thanks Country...it took a 2x4 from my W to make me realize that I really am in a good spot.
She was trying and trying to tell me that she needed this time to figure out things about herself, and I kept thinking it was all about me. OM may be involved, but I can't do anything about that right? So why bother trying to influence it.
I'll give her the time she asks for, I'll take this time to work on myself, and hopefully she can find the strength to give us another shot. And hopefully the new me will find the strength to deal with it if she decides not to.
One day at a time.
BITS M: 35 W: 27 T 7.5 years M 5 years No kids My EA: 3/08 Her EA: 1/11, discovered 3/11 (ongoing?) ILYBINILY, D mentioned 3/8/11 W at parents house: 4/16/11
