I really do think you should start a GET A LIFE Thread..titled UP, Up, and AWAY...getting a life!

You are so inspirational....you could talk about all of the things you have done for YOU...the flying lessons you are taking and the working out, etc...it would help others to understand how doing for ourselves makes us more attractive to others...I stopped doing for me when things got good again between me and my H...and started doting on him...and then he f**ck*d me over again. So, it's important to start it and stick to it....for yourself and your self esteem...
You have a great handle on that, Bob and could share it with others.....KUDOS to you! You get Akgal's Get A Life DB AWARD for today!

I am responsible for my own happiness.