it reminds me of the sitch a friend of ours was in, he had high drive and his w didn't, although when they were dating her drive seemed a lot higher.

Anyhow, she didn't feel "in the mood" if he didn't try to romance her and then when he tried to romance her she felt "manipulated"...and so, either way he got to be wrong...

They ended up divorced. It was sad but not surprising. I feel for you. But as you've heard here a hundred times, you can only control you. Take that sentence in, b/c once you really accept that you are only in charge of your life, then you'll begin to make progress.

But don't surrender your happiness and life to someone else. Be the author of your life, (imagine your life is a novel. Don't let someone else write the chapter or the rest of the book of your life. YOU write it. Make it go the way you want it to. )

And no, this doesn't mean "kick her to the curb." Just thinking you have a lot of work!


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change