Every time you were clingy, pursued her, pushed her or controlled her, she reacted negatively. However, she also reacted that way when you pulled away too much and became ("coldly") indifferent or said things that made her feel that way.
Every time you were just plain loving, accepting and even validating of her feelings she responded positively.
I don't think it's too late necessarily but if you want to DB, I think you're going to have change your tactics up. There's an underlying tone to all of her words that seem to indicate she's feeling unheard, unvalidated and unloved. I know you pinpointed the "straw that broke the camel's back" issue that started this again but I don't know that it's the root issue. She really seemed to be waiting for you to do or say the right thing. Maybe you have more insight into this since you know your W better than anyone. Is this at all related to the last time?
Anyways up to you as to where you want to go... as you know, I too am in the same sitch as far as deciding which path to head down this time.
