Oh..that comment. Looking back, when I was attempting to DB and not be clingy and week, I acted in ways that I am sure felt cold to STBX and confirmed her feeling that I don't really love her, but just want to own and control her. Hindsight is incredible, but now I am almost sure it's too late to learn from past mistakes. Well, not to late to learn, but too late to have that knowledge help me save my marriage.
