yes, the drinking was part of the problem the first time around also when he left me for the stripper that didnt even want him. Thats when he started going out to bars everynight was when he first left me. His drinking has gotten out of control lately since then.
I try to stay busy while he is out drinking. On tuesdays, I go bowling with my parents (which he used to also do, but not any more) and on thursdays I have an art night with my friends.And on some fridays - I attend bunco with a few of my girl friends. I have tried to go out to dinner more wiht freinds and family lately too. I dont just sit around all the time, but some nights I am home all day alone.
Yes, my H is working. He is actually a workaholic as well as an alcoholic because he own his own roofing business. As soon as he is off the roofs he is on the bar stool. I feel so rejected lately.
