Barnaby,

First off, welcome to this board...

When you and your H met, he knew you had these children correct?

What are his specific complaints?

How involved is their father?

I also don't think I would expect him to be 100% committed to the R or working on the R right now...

If you push for that at this time, he will more than likely leave...

And I don't think that you want that to happen...


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