I went to bed early last night but did have the TV on (it was still on this morning when I woke up) but I noticed an old movie on one of the chanels in which two women (mother and daughter) were talking about loving her future, unmet, husband in an upcomming arranged marriage. The mother was saying to the Daughter that love is a choice and then followed with - a mother loves her children, yet she did not go out and pick them. The love is by choice and she could likewise choose to love her new husband.
I don't know what this has to do with anything but I guess that most WAS choose to keep loving the kids but choose to stop loving the LBS. If course we can not tell them that because they will just be defensive about it all but it is interesting to note.
Also on a different topic - thought about this when I was just taking my shower and noticing some effects of starting to work out and wondering why I am noticing so soon after I started - well, I am also taking Testesterone supplements. I remembered reading on the internet when I started my supplements and checking on what it did, that alot of professional weight lifters take Test supplements to help them build. So I guess that will help me in that area as well (providing I keep working out) As Dr. Phil said on his show once, "having a health club membership does not help you loose weight, USING a health club membership helps you loose weight"