I don't know how to do that, but asked the moderator to do so. My sitch is one of the longest ever on here and one hell of a story. I believe I have locked up 2 threads just since returning here in August of 2009. I would like to read those threads to confirm where I made mistakes. It would be an awesome lesson for all. Since August 09, we co-habitated while STBX waited to move out, separated, dated, went on vacations with kids and just the two of us (twice), felt to me like it was all getting better, gone down hill, and most recently STBX has begun an open relationship with her boss, who has been trying to win the "woman he is in love with" for 8-9 years.
It's been a long, tumultuous rollercoaster ride.
And that's just been since I came back. Apparently my original threads from 2005 are gone forever. Yes, 6 years of fighting for my family.
