Can't believe it - May has arrived! This means 10 years since my Ex's affair with his co-worker began and our lives were turned upside down. Our 25th anniversary in the midst of the chaos and horror (he was a verbally abusive man). The terrifying episodes. The extreme fear of the future. The end of our lives as we knew it. The despair. And then the small attempts to rebuild a life. The leaving of the Dream house we had built but a move to a smaller more affordable "Me House". And now that is ending too.
Yesterday (after spending weeks followed by INTENSE days of sorting, packing and then TOSSING)- I called my agent and listed my house for sale. Strangely - he had got a similar call the day before from the purchasers of my previous house - it is being sold too - Why? Because they are getting a divorce too!. Hmmm..
