I made it through day 3 of being dark, or really more like LRT at this point. A year and a half after she walked out our door, STBX is now openly involved with her Boss and last time we spoke, ended our conversation with "I'm done, I'm done". So, really, what else can I do now, except completely drop the rope, go dark and live my life. If I could have ever done this successfully earlier, I may not be where I am now, but I no longer beat myself up over anything. I tried harder than any other man would. And of course, I may not be here..may. Sometimes one person simply can't save a family or a marriage.

Time for Sunday with me kids.


50 years old.

Ontario, Canada

Loving Marriage #2 with the perfect person.