-show interest and give hope, then do a massive pullback, crushing them
-rewrite your past with them, telling them you were never happy
-assure them the kids will be fine, they will bounce back
And I could keep going
Wonder how many of the LBS's have heard exactly these things. I'm tempted to head down to Barnes and Noble and see if there's a book on how to be a WAS...we all read DR, maybe there's a WASR out there too. Sure would make this easier if we could take a look at those pages!
BITS M: 35 W: 27 T 7.5 years M 5 years No kids My EA: 3/08 Her EA: 1/11, discovered 3/11 (ongoing?) ILYBINILY, D mentioned 3/8/11 W at parents house: 4/16/11