http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1103592&page=1

The above is the link to my first thread - Entitled How does one stop fixating on the OW.

I then tended to leap around. I would suggest clicking on my name and looking at my early posts, if you want to learn about my sitch.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength