what I will never, ever understand, or really accept, however detached I am, is the way that so many of them ditch their children. My h has no relationship with his kids, [adults] and now regrets this, but isn't willing to do anything about it.
I do not know how I would cope if one of my kids had lost all respect and liking for me, let alone all of them. If he said he was sorry, truly and tried to rebuild a relationship with them they would welcome it. Given that this was always supposed to be about our marriage, and not about the children, it is one bit I do not get.
